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Life Lessons from My Dad

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While some lessons are learned at schools, colleges, and educational platforms, the most impactful teachings often come from everyday interactions with those closest to us. My dad, through his words, actions, and casual conversations, instilled in me valuable life lessons that I didn't fully grasp until much later.


Here are Some of My Dad’s Life Lessons that Made a Huge Impact on Me:


  1. Never not take a call: It signifies two important things:

  2. Avoid being indecisive. Take a decision and move forward with it. Being unsure and not taking action leads nowhere. Evaluate the circumstances and factors, then confidently make a decision and proceed.

  3. Always answer a phone call: Regardless of the time, the caller, or the circumstances. If you can answer the call, do so. You never know when an emergency, an opportunity, or a critical situation might come knocking on your door.

  4. Relationships over Money: Throughout his life, he has always prioritized his relationships over money. Whether it's a close relative or someone far away, he never misses an opportunity to attend their events. From weddings to birthday parties and even funerals, he makes it a point to be there, regardless of whether it's in the same city or not. Over the years, I have witnessed the immense respect my father receives from our relatives. When he was hospitalized, people came from all over, taking time out of their busy schedules just to be there for him. The respect he has earned is not solely based on his business success, but rather on the way he nurtures and maintains his relationships.

  5. The world is a ruthless place: My father has truly seen the world and has a wealth of knowledge that I never fully appreciated. His advice, though sometimes blunt, is a reflection of the harsh realities of life. From being cautious with your words to understanding the different types of people and relationships, handling money wisely, navigating business dealings, mastering negotiation skills, and learning what not to trust - his guidance has opened my eyes to the harshness of the world. I've come to understand that he has a depth of experience that surpasses my own and that the world can be unforgiving if you're not careful.

  6. Do what you want: Growing up, he was granted the liberty to choose his path while under the care of my grandparents. Due to certain circumstances, he had to take up responsibilities. He never imposed or coerced any decisions onto me, but he did offer suggestions, advice, and opinions. He made an effort to share his beliefs with me, but in the end, he always respected my decision-making and my choice to pursue my desires. This freedom allowed me to explore, travel, study, and work according to my wishes.

As I reflect on the past, I come to understand that my father's seemingly ordinary conversations carried deep-rooted lessons. The way he taught me about making firm decisions, valuing relationships, overcoming life's obstacles, and embracing the freedom to chase my dreams has greatly influenced the person I have become today. I am truly thankful for his profound wisdom and guidance, even though it took me a while to truly grasp their significance. I am confident that I will keep learning from him as I move through life. Professionally, this is where my learnings and values have taken me- Wix Freaks


What is something you've learned from people close to you?

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